Jakarta, the number of people with sexual disorders are not a little, but few ask for help sex therapist to help find a way out. This is because the problem of sex is considered taboo to talk about with other people. When in fact necessary to the sex therapist?
If you are having problems in bed, the best solution may exist in the therapist's office. A study recently published in the journal Cancer found that sex therapy can help overcome erectile dysfunction in patients with prostate cancer.
Researchers found that men who consult with a sex therapist online or face to face for 12 weeks had a significant benefit in sexual function and satisfaction, while men who do not meet therapists have developed no improvement.
Despite its benefits only visible after a year later, it is clear that sex therapy is not just for people who are undergoing treatment kanker.Sebelum introduced Viagra, sex therapy is treatment given to treat erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and low sex drive.
"Sex therapy involves meeting with a counselor trained to talk about sex life, so the therapist can provide information and exercises at home to help them with problems," said Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., a scientist from Indiana University and author of 'Great in Bed 'as quoted from Menshealth.com, Friday (07/10/2011).
"Sex is a taboo topic for people who do not know much about sexual harassment or which one is normal and what is not. Sharing of sexual information in therapy sessions can change someone's life," said Herbenick.
Sex therapy is a treatment option for people who suffer from low sexual desire, painful sex, difficulty achieving erection or maintain an erection, or have a problem with a partner.
Here are some warning signs a person should soon be seeing a therapist.
1. Continuing problem
Surely every man has a difficult time in which he had erections after spending a long night out. But if ejaculation or erection problems last more than 2 weeks, there could be more serious problems such as stress or anxiety.
2. Cause problems in the relationship
"If sexual problems cause an argument with a partner, it's time to get third-party intervention," said Herbenick.
Stress stemming from sex can make restless. The therapist can help identify which parts of a relationship that may lead to disputes and provide guidance on how meannganinya.
3. Feeling guilty or ashamed
With so many media reviews about pornography and sex, a person may begin to question their own sexual habits. If someone feels guilty about what to do or feel, talk to a professional to help sort out why.
4. Sex is painful
Stress in bed can result from sex painful, usually due to medications or other health problems.
The therapist can provide advice about the position most comfortable or beneficial to clients and partners based on body size and situation. Therapists can also provide information and advice about relaxation techniques.
5. He is not interested
"Most couples go through periods where they are not eager to have sex," says Herbenick. This may result from stress or fatigue. But if it lasts more than a few months, there may be a problem.
A therapist can recommend a good communication techniques to explain to the couple how to learn to say no to sex without disturbing the relationship. If you do not want to see a therapist but still wanted to increase her passion, try to hold hands or do something that makes him happy
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