Signs of Sexual Orientation Deviation

Jakarta, Some people sometimes can not know with certainty what their sexual orientation, normal or even distorted. How can I tell whether our sexual orientation is normal or not?

Determine sexual orientation can be a confusing experience. This is because some people may experience changes in views on sexual orientation.

Someone who has a normal sexual orientation will love the opposite sex, but not with people who have a sexual orientation irregularities such as gay, lesbian or bisexual.

As quoted from eHow, Tuesday (12/21/2010) there are several things you can know if someone has a deviant sexual orientation, namely:

1. Have a feeling that changing to the opposite sex
One feels a different person than the past. For example, used to have a fascination with the opposite sex but now feel like it's gone.

If someone feels as if always a different person she felt about same-sex then it is possible he has a gay or lesbian sexual orientation.

2. Do not care about stereotypes or views of others
Such a person is indifferent to the views of others and do not want to know the assessment of sexual orientation. They are more willing to show her sex status is not normal.

3. Understanding the behavior of 'gay' and 'straight' (normal).
People like this usually know when a same-sex attraction but there is no sense of it with the opposite sex. Some people sometimes have the feeling both (bisexual).

4. Know your deepest feelings held
If the person has a sexual desire is stronger than the feelings of the people of the same sex. Usually people like this are more stimulated to see same-sex rather than the opposite sex.

5. Sexual fantasies when masturbating
When to masturbate, she finds herself fantasizing having sex with someone of the same gender and often can not reach climax when fantasizing with people of the opposite sex.

6. Feel embarrassed if you see same-sex kissing scene
When watching television, one feels embarrassed at the sight of a nude scene or the kissing of the people of the same sex.

Sexual perversions such as gay or lesbian is not just limited to just physical but also a deep feeling of falling in love with someone of the same sex.

This condition usually does not happen overnight, but it takes a certain period or due to past trauma. If you experience some of these, it could not hurt to consult with an expert.